Rachel Hillestad’s Facebook post has been shared more than 39,000 times. Picture: Facebook

That’s how Rachel Hillestad’s Facebook post started. Little did she know her words would be shared more than 39,000 times.

“He was mine for two and a half weeks, but those days and nights saw him smile, sleep through the night instead of freezing awake in terror, swing for hours on the swings my kids take for granted,” she continues.

“He called me Mama and I told him every time I left that if I said I would come back, I would. I prepared him for his new home as well as I could, but now it’s nap time and his new mom (sic) says he misses me. I texted her a picture to show him.

“The number one thing people say to me is, ‘I could never do foster care. I would get too attached’.

“Guess what: I’m just like you. I ‘got attached’. I was the only one who could get him to sleep or knew exactly what kind of jam he liked on his toast. I helped him through his diahrrea (sic) and got frustrated when he broke Christmas ornaments. I watched him as he slept.

“My answer to those people who say that is this: I absolutely get attached. I wonder where they are now. They visit me in my dreams, and sometimes I wake up with a wet face. It hurts.

“Sometimes in those moments it hurts to breathe. You know what I know even MORE, though? I’d rather these sweet babies know my love than never know it. I would carry their hurt inside my own adult heart if it meant there was less in their tiny sad one.

“There is absolutely no reason that an eight-year-old who watched his mother be murdered not know the love of a stranger. It’s absolutely criminal that a two-year-old sit in a social worker’s office for two days in dirty clothes because I’m afraid I’d get too attached. I got attached. Getting attached has been the greatest pleasure and honour of my entire life.”

Rachel has three kids of her own, but is also a foster mum. Picture: FacebookSource:Facebook

Her Facebook post attracted a flood of comments.

Shannon Cook wrote “I was one of those kids”.

“Just know that if a child is with you for a few hours, a day, a week or a month, if they’re with you for a year, those few kind words and awkward hugs are never ever forgotten.

“All the wishes I placed on many stars felt possible because of people like you.”

Rachel, who is a writer who has appeared on daytime TV in the US speaking of her foster parenting experience.

The photo of an empty cot Rachel also posted online. Picture: Facebook Source:Facebook